The Best Breakup Advice Ever

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Frankly speaking, the first time I was asked about the best breakup advice I did not know what to say.

I can tell you about 5 or 7 of the best breakup advice but if you are asking about just one single advice.. well I am going to tell you about it right after this small story.

Two friends of mine came asking for my advice about their breakup. They had almost the same problem. Both of them have just broken up with their girlfriends and both of them said that they want to get over the breakup.

I met both of them in personal and gave them almost the same time, and the same advice.

Both of them complained that it is difficult to handle their emotions after the breakup.

Both of them were already in the bargaining stage.

Both of them were suffering.

Personally, I have not met any two cases that are too similar like the case of my two friends.

I expected that they would recover at the same time because their situations were very similar to each other.

Two weeks later, I noticed that one of them is already on the right track to completely get over the breakup while the other was almost at the same stage.

Both of them were of my best friends and I really wanted to help them both, but I did not know what to do to help the other friend make the same progress as the first one.

I even sat with him many times, but what I have found was really strange.

It seemed like the more I provide him with advice, the farther he becomes from the recovery stage.

Back to the first friend, he is now already over his girlfriend, while the other friend did not move a single step forward.

Now, the question is why?

Why two men with the same situation, age, attitude and were provided with the same advice are that different when it comes to getting over the breakup?

Why some people succeed in overcoming the breakup faster than others?

What is the best breakup advice?

The best breakup advice is what made one of my friends recover while the other is still suffering till the moment I write this post.

The best breakup advice is: Follow the advice.

Yes, this is the best breakup advice, to follow the advice.

There is a lot of useful breakup advice, but all of them are useless if you do not follow them.

Taking action is the secret!

The best breakup advice is: Follow the advice. Taking action is the secret!

No magical pills or black magic.

So, if it’s that simple, then why do people still suffer after a breakup?

Why do people still suffer after a breakup?

People say the same thing.

They say that they want to get over the breakup.

They say that they want to feel good.

They say that say want to be happy.

However, the fact is that they WISH not WANT.

There is no real desire to end their miserable life and to start a happier life.

They say that they want to recover, but they continue to listen to sad breakup songs.

They say they want to heal their broken hearts, but they keep visiting the same places they went to with their ex lovers.

They say that they hate their exes and want to forget about the past, but they keep visualizing themselves back again with their ex lovers.

They say something, and they do the complete opposite thing then come to me and ask for the best breakup advice because my old advice did not work for them!!

The best breakup advice is to use the best breakup advice.

The best breakup advice is to follow the best breakup advice.

The best breakup advice is to start taking action and to apply the breakup advice.

If you came hear searching for the best breakup advice, then if you do not know or just did not read any breakup advice, then start reading at the breakup advice section.

I would also recommend that you start with those posts:

But if you have already got a breakup advice but you found that it does not work for you, then you should know that the problem is about you and not about the breakup advice itself.. Just start taking action and everything will dramatically be improved.

Now are you still looking for the best breakup advice?? Just start applying the best breakup advice that you already know and i promise that you will feel better in a very short time.

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Ali is the one behind Relationshippa.com. He created this Relationship Advice Blog to share what he has learned through the past 7 years about psychology, women, and relationships to help you control your love life.

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Comments

  1. Jane says:

    The best advice I think is, to dis-associate oneself from all the gifts and physical things that make you think of your ex.

  2. mariem says:

    Great article Ali i like it :)
    thanks for sharing!

  3. Ali says:

    Thanks for linking to my blog :)

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